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I hate seeing cute guys places where there's really no good way to talk to them. Like at the grocery store. What, are you just going to go up to them in the produce aisle and be like, "So...do you really think a tomato is a fruit?" And cute guys are so difficult to come by these days that you almost feel like you should say something stupid like that. At least you'd be saying something!!

I hate that I am not attracted to any of the few guys I know, and anytime I see a nice looking guy he is a complete stranger. Jul 16 5:29 PM MST

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Uggghh! I hate that now that i am engaged to an average-ish sort of guy, all these hot guys that I was interested in in the past, are now expressing their interest in me. bastards! it's called timing, learn how to use it well!
I also hate how shallow i am, i'm engaged to a wonderful caring guy, but i just can't seem to get past his plain looks, i mean i'm not gorgeous so who am i to judge? Jun 10 10:36 AM MST

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I hate it when people ask me the same question again and again. For example if I have lost something (like the car keys), my wife and I go over where I last used them and where I last saw them.
If it's not on the table where I was sure I had put them, we begin searching. The bit I hate is when she gets frustrated, turns to me and yells, "Where the hell did you put them!". I'll tell her I don't know, then we search for a bit more. Then she turns to me again, getting angrier as the keys fail to turn up and yells, "What did you do with them, where are they!?"
Yelling is not going to help me remember and I've already said I don't know, so stop asking. I feel like she suspects I really do know where the keys are and I am playing some sort of stupid game. Apr 28 9:14 PM MST

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I hate it when a something, such as the car has broken down and I get this huge number of questions thrown at me about what happened. What gets me is the tone that the breakdown was somehow my fault. The car didn't just blow its transmission, I had to have done something stupid to cause it to happen.
Most things don't break down when they are doing nothing, so chances are the car will break down as it is changing gear, stopping, starting etc. So the first question is always, "what were you doing when this happened?". Of course I was just taking off from the lights or something when the car blew up. Then I get asked how fast did I take off, what else was I doing etc.

Stop acting as though I did this deliberatly. The car has broken down. We need to call a mechanic and that's the whole story. Stop acting like this has to be my fault somehow! Apr 26 9:27 PM MST

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I hate the unhatable. Those things which aren't really the hatee's fault, but that I desperately want to hate them for anyways.

I hate my parents, who can only cough up half of the $100,000 it takes for a the decent school I go to. I hate that I can't really hate them; hell, they're giving me $50,000 with no expected return.

I hate my boss for knocking open source software, even though his points are entirely valid.

I hate people who go slowly on the highway, even though their going exactly the limit, and I know I should be too.

I hate the Indonesian guy who answers when I try to get a straight answer out of my phone company, but I know it's not his fault; he's just the product of deprioritized customer support and the inevitability of globalization.

I hate people for things that I know are not their fault. And for that reason, I can't get good and angry; I can't give them a good verbal thumping on what their problems are, because it's not their fault. I hate that for most problems, there is nothing solid to hate. Jan 15 1:57 PM MST

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I hate homelessness. I was homeless a few times in the past. The first two times weren't that bad(or maybe I was humbled too much to think they weren't "that bad"?), because they occured in the summertime and I had a car. With a car, I was able to drive up to friends' places to stay or at last resort, could sleep in my car. My friends were nicer to me then and let me stay with them, so it wasn't that bad. But the worst time occured this time 2yrs ago, when I had no car and was kicked out by my parents in the middle of an unusually cold winter.

The things that I hated the most about homelessness were: 1) the physical discomfort of being constantly cold and having nowhere to sleep; 2) the discrimination. People constantly falsely accused me of shit when they found out that I was a "homeless person." They made me feel as if I'd been homeless for years, due to things within my control such as drug addiction, mental illness, murder charges, etc...when in reality, I had good grades in college, had worked menial jobs since 8th grade, and simply couldn't find a decent job after college so my parents misunderstood this and kicked me out(my parents later profusely apologized and confessed that they were unaware of my bad situation). I got accused of being a thief, an attempted swindler, and a coke addict...all untrue. I lost a lot of friends because of homelessness. Some "friends" would falsely accuse me of things or blame everything on me. Some "friends" sympathized with me on the hard luck I was having, yet wouldn't respond when I asked if I could stay with them for a single day. Or when I finally contacted a few of these fake "friends" and confronted them about their superficiality, they got unreasonably angry at me. One "friend" was helpful at first and let me stay with him, but soon after ditched me because it "really got to him" that all of his acquaintences were taunting him for hanging out with "that homeless girl." There was more than one bar that kicked me out simply because they heard through the grapevine that I was homeless...and this is considering that I had enough money to buy a drink or appetizer! Overall, people gave me attitude and discredited the fact that I was a good person put in a bad situation.

It got to the point that I started pretending to NOT be homeless, except when propositioning friends and/or boys if I would be able to stay with them for just a day. I risked getting arrested in MANY occasions, when I would sneak into my former college's lounge to sleep, or walk into their gym facilities as naturally as if I were a student, to use their lockerroom showers. I would try so hard to look "normal," but people usually could tell or if they couldn't tell, they still treated me like crap because they could at least tell that I didn't make much money.

Of course I wasn't going to tell prospective employers that I was homeless. But this came back to haunt me when I worked at Applebees, and despite my best efforts to hold down this job(there were many obstacles, such as it being in the boonies beyond mass transit extents on some days, and a few other difficulties relating to my lack of car or home), my problems caught up to me and I got in trouble at work. At that point, I felt obliged to confess to the manager about my homeless situation, because it was the only explanation that made sense by that point. Well the manager USED THIS INFO AGAINST ME, treating me like crap for the rest of the night and blaming me for stuff that either I didn't do, or stuff that the entire host staff was responsible for(but they didn't get blamed, only me). It was humiliating and degrading.

I have never been treated like more of an outcast/pariah than when I was homeless. :( Even when I was outcasted as a "nerd" in middle school, and that's really saying something if you know anything about "middle school clique politics" and the effect on a child's self-esteem. Jan 9 9:00 PM MST

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I hate when people blame anything and everything but themselves but i also hate how people always blame themselves why can't people just blame the correct source even if it's them Sep 2 12:56 PM MST

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I hate it that I can never be pissed off without people blaming pms. Nov 18 12:25 AM MST

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I hate how Liberals and Conservatives blame eachother for EVERYTHING. It's so stupid. Grow up. Seriously. Oct 26 7:13 AM MST

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I hate people who say that god made them gay. It's so stupid and retarded and people should take responsibilities for their own feelings. Oct 7 2:33 AM MST

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I hate it when black people blame everything on the "white man" when half the time it's their fault that they're a bunch ignorant assholes. If they actually got off ther dumb fat ass and went to school, they'd be somebody. Oct 7 1:30 AM MST

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I hate when people notice something is missiing and instantly assume it was stolen. Oct 5 3:44 PM MST