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I hate that 2 of my sons - 19 & 21 - are not in college - living at home - lazy - messy - unable to leave! I hate that one has a criminal record which makes it hard for him to find employment - so he's still here - I can't figure out how to quit - When I was a young woman I couldn't wait to move out - why are kids (particularily the older one) still here when we obviously don't want that? We are not welcoming - we provide nothing more than a room and food - no computer, phones etc. Sometimes rides to interviews...I hate that I can't just enjoy my evenings - that they are in and out - smoking (outside) eating just generally being in the way. I want to escape. But I can't run away from the younger ones.... Sep 20 8:19 PM MST