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i hate when people say "no offense.." then subsequently say something really OFFENSIVE!
it's like, if you don't want me to be offended, don't make that harsh, rude comment in the first place.

"no offense, but your outfit is REALLY disgusting"
is that really necessary? you could say
"no offense, but i think you should wear a different top with that skirt", and maybe i wouldn't take offense

or "no offense, but i can't stand being around you"...try "no offense, but maybe we shouldn't spend so much time together"

seriously, if you're going to say something really mean to someone, throwing "no offense" in there will not make it any less offensive, it'll only make you look like an asshole Aug 29 4:48 PM MST